Done Settling.

Ready for Real.

Special Offer – Your First Intro Session for Only NZD $45


Let’s sit down for a real, honest chat — about what’s happening in your world, where you’d love to be, and how I can support you in getting there. Spots are limited — so if you’re feeling the nudge, now’s the time.

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Done Settling. Ready for Real.


You’re not too much—you’re just done being less.

Done performing. Done pretending it’s fine.


You’re ready for more.

More truth. More self-respect. More love that actually feels like love.

You're ready for real.


I help people break the cycles that keep them settling, and show them how to build relationships rooted in truth, self-worth, and real connection.


You're ready for real…and we’ll get you there - together. With clarity, compassion, and no BS.

I'm Lana


Connection Coach and Relationship Mentor

for people who are done settling.


You’re not asking for too much—you’re just done asking for too little.


I help people who are tired of half-hearted love reconnect with themselves and create relationships that feel as good on the inside as they look on the outside.


If you’ve lost yourself trying to hold it all together, stayed too long in the wrong relationships, or feel like you're constantly giving more than you get—you’re in the right place.


Through 1:1 coaching, we’ll strip away old patterns, rebuild from self-respect, and help you shift from surviving to actually thriving—in love and in life.


You were never meant to "just settle." You were meant for something deeper.


Let’s find it—together.


Offerings

 "Remember, the entrance door to the sanctuary is inside you." 

- Rumi


Why Coaching Is the Key to Your Growth?

Support You Can Rely On

Someone who’s here just for you—your thoughts, your feelings, your journey.

Clarity in the Chaos

See things as they truly are, through the noise and patterns that keep you stuck.

Tools to Thrive, Not Just Survive

Become the expert on you. Your dreams, challenges and relationship style.

Empowered Living

Move through life with awareness, boundaries, purpose and JOY.

Tired of Waiting

to Be Chosen?

Sick of waiting and hoping? Tired of making a new version of you to fit what someone else wants?


Download this no-BS guide to break this self-rejecting pattern, it's the foundation of my work.

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What Clients Say

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    "The Soul Mapping Course was an eye-opening journey that taught me to deeply reflect on my thoughts and behaviors. It was enlightening to learn about different archetypes and how they shape our lives. "


    - Maija


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    "I loved the communal journey of the Soul Mapping Course; it helped me learn a lot about myself and rethink my actions in daily life. The course made me more aware of my patterns and how to approach them thoughtfully. Lana's empathetic nature made all the difference, making her easy to talk to and genuinely supportive."


    - Julie


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    "Lana has a beautiful way of meeting you where you are, and helping you see pathways forward while gently helping self-exploration and understanding."


    - Cyndi

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    "Far exceeded my expectations. A gentle and kind, but no bullshit, approach to rethinking my own behaviours and feelings has been incredibly impactful. For anyone wanting to do better for themselves, I highly recommend Lana as someone who’s real and knowledgeable, and supportive."


    - Hayley

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    "Working with Lana has been life changing.  I finally found how to love me and understand myself.  I have learnt to be so tender to the inner child.  I no longer search for outside validation, I do that for myself.  Thank you so much Lana for sharing your knowledge with me and helping me along the way."


    - Teresa

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Is this for you?


Discover how having a dedicated coach by your side brings clarity, genuine and dedicated support on your journey. Clear away the noise of endless options 'quick self-help fixes' and strategies; feel truly seen, heard, and met with compassion, exactly where you are—without judgment.

Is Coaching for Me?