Lana Jago
Relationship Coach
I'm Lana, your kink and ENM-aware relationship coach.Loneliness sucks. But so do relationships that leave you feeling empty, exhausted, and like you've walked away from yourself...yet again.You deserve so much more.If you're done trying to live off crumbs of connection, I'm here to help you reconnect with yourself and create relationships that actually feel good.Because you were never meant to "just settle."
What Working With Me Looks Like
Online via Zoom or in-personIt's not about other people, and it's not about fixing you - it’s about coming back to you.My coaching sessions support you to reconnect with yourself, so you can finally start connecting with others from a place of self-awareness, confidence, and truth.We’ll identify the stories, beliefs and fears that have kept you stuck (or playing out the same patterns on repeat); teach you strategies to shift what needs to be shifted; and build a foundation of self-respect, awareness, and conscious choice.This is real support, real tools, and real transformation - delivered with compassion, depth, and no BS.Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship that no longer feels good, this work is about breaking patterns, building connection, and creating relationships that don’t cost your soul.
Intro sessions are priced at NZD $39, further sessions at $99/hr. However, I believe that everyone deserves access to support, regardless of financial circumstances. If this rate feels out of reach, I do offer koha coaching sessions, that allow you to pay what you can.
Workshops
Soulful, spicy, straight-up relationship work for people who are done repeating the same old shit.
From Worth, Not Wounds
A 75-minute video workshop that guides you through the ways in which self-worth influences what we’re drawn to, and where we settle, in relationships and connections.
Better Boundaries
A practical and powerful 75-minute video workshop for those who find it difficult to set boundaries, say no, or even know what they want sometimes.
From Worth, Not Wounds
If you fall too fast (always for the wrong ones!), you overlook red flags, you love a good project, or your friends keep telling you you need to raise your standards, this is for you.A 75 minute deep dive into the ways in which self-worth influences what we’re drawn to, and where we settle, in relationships and connections. Identify where your wounding has driven your past dating decisions, and learn how to navigate attraction consciously.So you can finally stop losing yourself in connections that reflect your wounds, and start choosing ones that honour your worth.
Workshop intentions:🔹 To explore the ways in which self-worth influences what you’re drawn to, and where you settle, in relationships
🔹 To recognise where your wounding has driven your dating decisions in the past
🔹 To get clear on what intentional dating looks like, and how to navigate attraction consciously🗓️ Buy now and receive the video to watch in your own time
✨ $39NZYou get:
🔹 1 x 75-minute video workshop (for personal use only)
🔹 A workbook to guide your reflection and take note of your learnings
🔹 Deep insight, practical tools, and zero fluff
Better Boundaries
A practical and powerful workshop for those who find it difficult to set boundaries, say no, or even know what they want sometimes.Explore why boundaries are important for healthy relationships, and learn how to identify your own boundaries - not just in the present moment, but as they evolve or situations change.We’ll also discuss how to communicate and hold your boundaries - and learn strategies to support you in doing so, even when faced with resistance.
Workshop intentions:🔹 To get clear on why boundaries are important for healthy relationships
🔹 To learn how to identify your own boundaries (now, and in the future)
🔹 To explore barriers to communicating and maintaining your boundaries, and learn strategies to navigate those barriers🗓️ Buy now and receive the video to watch in your own time
✨ $39NZYou get:
🔹 1 x 75-minute video workshop (for personal use only)
🔹 A workbook to guide your reflection and take note of your learnings
🔹 Deep insight, practical tools, and zero fluff
Hi, I'm Lana
Neurospicy, kinky, and a wee bit woo-woo.I’m a Relationship and Dating Coach for people who want to start building relationships that actually feel good. I hold a Master’s degree in Psychology, I’m a certified coach, and I’ve walked this same journey myself.I get it! I’ve been married, then engaged again. I’ve dated, I’ve thought it was love, I’ve fallen for potential. I’ve poured too much energy into trying to make something work, and I’ve stayed in connections that left me feeling lonely and exhausted.I used to look back on past relationships and ask myself, "WTF was I thinking?"! But now I understand what was pulling me to those places, I’ve faced the patterns, and I’ve learnt how to shift them.Now, I help you break the cycles that keep you settling, and show you how to build relationships rooted in truth, self-worth, and real connection.If you’ve lost yourself in love, stayed too long in the wrong relationships, or feel like you're constantly giving more than you get - I see you. And I’m here to help you rewrite your relationship scripts so that you can experience more love, and more connection - whatever your relationship status.
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Coaching Client Agreement and Informed Consent
Disclosure Statement and Agreement for Services
This agreement provides important information regarding my coaching services. Please read it carefully and feel free to ask any questions you may have.Information About Your Coach
I hold a Masters degree in Psychology. As a certified Persona Archetype Coach, I have completed over 108 hours of specialised study under Master Coach and creator of Persona Archetype Coaching, Katie Eden Todd. I maintain ongoing professional development to stay current with best practices in this field.I work with you using my unique skills and experience, always within my Code of Conduct and Scope of Practice.I am not a therapist. As such, I do not:
- Offer advice outside of a coaching nature
- Provide therapy or counselling
- Prescribe health, nutrition, or medical treatments
- Diagnose conditions
- Guarantee a specific outcomeI will not:
- Use my position to promote another business or non-business entity
- Take advantage of my coaching role with youCost of Services
Coaching services are not covered by private health insurance. Payment is due at the time of your coaching appointment via the provided details.Session Fee: 1 hour 1:1 session – $99 NZD (koha sessions available for those for whom cost is a barrier)Coach’s Pledge
I am committed to protecting the confidentiality of your information. Video calls are conducted over secure links, and you agree to also ensure a secure connection on your end.Sessions will always be conducted respectfully, within my Code of Conduct and Scope of Practice.Appointment Scheduling and Cancellation Policy
Except in cases of illness or valid unforeseen circumstances, 24 hours' notice is required for cancellations or rescheduling. Cancellations within 24 hours will incur a 50% fee. No-shows will be charged at the full session rate. These policies help ensure all clients have access to appointments.Termination of Coaching and Refund Policy
Either party may end the coaching relationship if it is no longer beneficial. Sessions already completed are non-refundable.If I believe another coach or practitioner would better support your needs, I will discuss a referral with you. Following through on any recommendations remains your responsibility.Liability
Coaching services with Lana Jago focus on identifying goals, making behavioural changes, and personal development. They are not a substitute for therapy or medical treatment. If you require support for mental health conditions, please seek help from a qualified physician or licensed mental health professional.By participating in coaching, you accept responsibility for seeking additional professional support if needed.Agreement Confirmation
By booking a coaching session, you confirm that you have read, understood, and agree to the Coaching Client Agreement and Informed Consent outlined above.